Mourning Rituals
When mourning a loved one after their funeral or cremation service, its useful to have a ritual or tradition that you practice. Read on for our ideas and tips!

Carry a Keepsake
If you are struggling to find ways to cope with a tough loss in your life, many people turn to little habits that work to keep their loved one’s memory alive and well. Interestingly enough, some people have a ritual of keeping an important keepsake on their person as a way of coping with a loss. If you are someone who takes comfort in physical items, then keeping an important memento, keepsake, or remembrance item of the deceased can help you feel comforted in times of grief and sorrow . We recommend choosing an item small enough that it can be easily carried with you wherever you go. Some things that people choose for this type of item include pieces of jewelry, a small souvenir, a photograph, and more! Keep in mind that there is no right or wrong item to choose, so this is completely up to you to decide!
Burn Sage
If you are someone who likes keeping with long held traditions, then you may prefer the act of burning sage in your home. Many people, especially those who liken themselves as spiritual individuals, believe that burning sage works to clean away any negative emotions. So, for example, if you’ve been affected by heavy and negative emotions after the loss of a loved one, then burning sage can be used in order to clean the negative energy out of your space and replace it with clean and positive energy.
Host a Giveaway
In some cultures, families host giveaway rituals in which possessions of the deceased are given away to others as a way to remember them by. If you are comfortable with doing so with your family and friends, then this kind of ritual can be healing as everyone has the opportunity to leave with a piece of the deceased. If, however, you don’t have many people in your family interested in taking items, then it could also be a good idea to donate the deceased items to others who are struggling as well!
Cook a Favorite Meal
While you may not initially think of this action as a ritual, many people feel strongly in the power of cooking’s healing powers. If you are in any way culinarily talented, then spending your time cooking a meal for the deceased can be a great way to get your mind focused on something else, while also working toward a meaningful goal.
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